No matter how hard life may be.. Keep on believing urself.. From there you can achive what others can't..
Love those in your life without any regret.. Remember that anyone that cross youur life has a part in making you a better person..
B'DAY BOY !!the birth day of my bestest boy-friend, Awe Hyril aka Awe Kecik !!! happy belated birthday wii !! hehehe~ bought the b'day boy two yellow rose, one from me and one from Boo.. hehe~ hope you love them yellow roses wii !! ^^
spent the whole day with Awe at his place.. with Boo, Awe Gebu and Saiful.. we eat, watch movies, gossiping, onlining, you name it !! ahahaha !! ;pp we had a great time !! don't we guys ?? hehehe~ heart you all !!
BORED !!!
today, as usual, got nothing to do, not going out since im already broke. and yes, im missing you~ how i wish i can spent time with you 24/7. love you Boo.. wonder what you are doing now. sleeping ?? teaching at Reeds ?? hmmm..
UNKNOWN IDENTITYowh yeah, weirdest thing happened to me during at Mall. there's this chinesse guy that passing us by. he was staring at me so yeah i gave him a smile. then i turned back. he keep on staring at me. to the point i wasn't feel uncomfortable. i asked Emms and Kerol to look at him, and yes, still he was staring at me. until we got onto the escalator. still he keep on looking at me. i was like, 'why does he keep on staring at me !?!' i don't even know him. hmmm. and during watching Predators, his face keep on haunting me. keep popping on my head. he really made me TTR (Tak Tentu Rasa) and yes, until now i wonder why he stared. i just call him Starry~ his identity remains unknown.
so yeah, this aftie, Boo sent me to Big Papa's, because i got lunch date with Emms, Kerol, Ann and Buzzy (along with, i think 4 of Ann and Buzzy's ITB mate). Boo had a luch with his cousins and one in particular happens to celebrate her birthday today !! HAPPY BIRTHDAY DATIN AYU !! hee~ me and Boo decided to bought her a bouquet of red and pink (since she loves pink so much) roses for her present. hope she do love it. hee.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY AYU !!
and after had a lunch. us three, me, Emms and Kerol went to Seri Qlap Complex just to buy popcorn. whaha !! then went to Mall afterthat, gone window shopping. but yeah, i did bought a new BLUE tee, yeah, BLUE !! so not me !! but hey, end up look good on me. wore it immediately after had purchased it. LOL !! because i was wearing the same tee that i wore last night and i didn't want people to find out. so yeah~ sue me all you want !! i don't care !! i was sleepover at Boo's place for god sake, didn't bring extra tee or whatever. ahahaha ;pp and owh yea, we watched Predators. the movie was great. not awesome, but great. which is good~ ahaha !! ;pp i give 8/10, but what's not great is that Boo wasn't there sitting next to me. got no one to pinch and punch. T.T
PREDATORS 2010
HAPPY BIRTHDAY AYU !!and after had a lunch. us three, me, Emms and Kerol went to Seri Qlap Complex just to buy popcorn. whaha !! then went to Mall afterthat, gone window shopping. but yeah, i did bought a new BLUE tee, yeah, BLUE !! so not me !! but hey, end up look good on me. wore it immediately after had purchased it. LOL !! because i was wearing the same tee that i wore last night and i didn't want people to find out. so yeah~ sue me all you want !! i don't care !! i was sleepover at Boo's place for god sake, didn't bring extra tee or whatever. ahahaha ;pp and owh yea, we watched Predators. the movie was great. not awesome, but great. which is good~ ahaha !! ;pp i give 8/10, but what's not great is that Boo wasn't there sitting next to me. got no one to pinch and punch. T.T
PREDATORS 2010
ok, yesterday was the final FIFA World Cup match, it was between Spain and Netherland (Holland). So, me and Yuba had a night out, went to Mall and met tons of familiar face, such met my lovely babes, Meeza, Amal, Piah & Zeila, god !! i miss them so much !! will meet then sooner. i hope~ AMIN~~~
so anyhoo, we (me and Yuba) decided to watch the match somewhere (which we have planned week ago) so we were also inviting my Boo and Yus (Boo's cousin) to join with us. and end up hanging out at Tauren Cafe (The Arch). long story short, Yuba had a little issues, typical him~ plus yea, we were there like 3 hours earlier before the match, so he decided to bring us cruising around Brunei, just some part of it. to think about it, god ! Brunei is such a small country. huhuhu. and yes, we missed to watch the match. but i couldnt care less. atleast i got to spent time with Boo. sleepover at Boo's. which is yes, far more great and fun than watching the match. hee. miss you now. uhuhu.
and yeah, as what most people bet on. Spain won World Cup !! so i couldn't be anymore happier. ahahaha !! ^^Y
CONGRATULATIONS SPAIN !!
*THIS IS THE ISSUES THAT MYSELF AND FIFI WERE DISCUSSING WHEN I WERE AT HIS PLACE.. which i am struggling with..*
this is Fifi's opinion about this issues *which i agree with* ;
Today's issue would revolve around conflicts..
Some people would argue that a relationship with less arguments or quarrels are healthy relationships.. This however, is simply a myth.. Then again, myth is a matter of unverified facts yes?
But through my perspective as a whole, conflicts and arguments in a relationship are somewhat inevitable.. I hear most people say what is most important in a relationship is HONESTY.. Don't get me wrong, I agree with this claim, yet I disagree with it at the same time..
Yes, honesty IS important in a relationship, however it should not be considered as THE MOST important role that exists in any relationships.. A matter of UNDERSTANDING is as crucial as honesty, because it somehow acts as a "glue" that holds partners in a relationship together..
**NOTE THAT THIS DISCUSSION IS BASED ON ASSUMING THE RELATIONSHIPS ARE MONOGAMOUS**
When two opinions or views clash with one another, conflict rises and creates an argument.. This argument is either handled as a calm discussion or a very "tense discussion" or even the "I'm going to throw this thing at you" discussion.. Nonetheless, this conflict could only be resolved with a certain discussion..
Some people would suggest:
"why should we confront? Why can't we just ignore the problem and not fight?"
To answer this question, I would refer to another scenario in a relationship.. When both partners decides not to confront each other with the problems, it is seemingly similar as to ignoring the facts.. Yet, I dare to say that ignoring facts doesn't mean that they would go away.. At first, it may be easy to handle such things.. But over time, the long-term effect of this is that the unresolved problems that have been stored inside for so long would build up and would gradually explode when a much bigger conflict rises on a latter basis - As if you're a walking time-bomb.. Another factor of this is that the problems will eat you up inside..
In conclusion, when conflicts rise in a relationship, ignoring them and hoping that they would just go away will only make things worse.. By discussing upon the issue in the conflict, both partners will see the two-sides of a coin rather than only one.. Hence, both partners would see a bigger picture and even, as a whole..
this is Fifi's opinion about this issues *which i agree with* ;
Today's issue would revolve around conflicts..
Some people would argue that a relationship with less arguments or quarrels are healthy relationships.. This however, is simply a myth.. Then again, myth is a matter of unverified facts yes?
But through my perspective as a whole, conflicts and arguments in a relationship are somewhat inevitable.. I hear most people say what is most important in a relationship is HONESTY.. Don't get me wrong, I agree with this claim, yet I disagree with it at the same time..
Yes, honesty IS important in a relationship, however it should not be considered as THE MOST important role that exists in any relationships.. A matter of UNDERSTANDING is as crucial as honesty, because it somehow acts as a "glue" that holds partners in a relationship together..
**NOTE THAT THIS DISCUSSION IS BASED ON ASSUMING THE RELATIONSHIPS ARE MONOGAMOUS**
When two opinions or views clash with one another, conflict rises and creates an argument.. This argument is either handled as a calm discussion or a very "tense discussion" or even the "I'm going to throw this thing at you" discussion.. Nonetheless, this conflict could only be resolved with a certain discussion..
Some people would suggest:
"why should we confront? Why can't we just ignore the problem and not fight?"
To answer this question, I would refer to another scenario in a relationship.. When both partners decides not to confront each other with the problems, it is seemingly similar as to ignoring the facts.. Yet, I dare to say that ignoring facts doesn't mean that they would go away.. At first, it may be easy to handle such things.. But over time, the long-term effect of this is that the unresolved problems that have been stored inside for so long would build up and would gradually explode when a much bigger conflict rises on a latter basis - As if you're a walking time-bomb.. Another factor of this is that the problems will eat you up inside..
In conclusion, when conflicts rise in a relationship, ignoring them and hoping that they would just go away will only make things worse.. By discussing upon the issue in the conflict, both partners will see the two-sides of a coin rather than only one.. Hence, both partners would see a bigger picture and even, as a whole..
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